Hi,
What kind of tape library are we talking about? Some (like Overland NEO) allow partitioning, so you can dedicate one partition for NDMP & the other partition(s) for non-NDMP backups.
Remote NDMP not necessarily will be very bad - you can segment your LAN nicely, as the backup data in fact travels only from the filer to the NetBackup media server (nothing goes via backup clients / application servers).
Regards,
Radek