From the factory I am seeing Flashcache in slot 1... so I would put flashcace in slot 1 and 10GbE in slot 2. But per the guide you would be supported if you did the opposite.
For SAS, definitely 3 and 4. The next slot listed to use in order availble is the best practice. If you had quad gigabit nics, then you could alternate them with SAS since both have the same slot recommendation..as long as the cards populate in order of the next slot recommendation it is supported.
You can also run "sysconfig -c" which tells you if you are not in optimal slots. It takes your sysconfig and parses against /etc/sysconfigtab which contains the slot recommendations. If the output shows no errors found, you are supported. You can also run 'sysconfig -ca" which parses again to give you the "x" part number which is easier than parts finder sometimes if you have an RMA.