All from memory:
RAID size is including parity, in your case, depends on disk type etc I'd assume it will just suggest you to create a new raid group, or append the disks to fill your first RAID group, if you want to influence it, you can play with the maxraidsize value before and after...
Performance in RAID is negligible these days, even during re-construction, the main thing they worried about is availability of the aggr, the more disk in it the more likely you can hit double-disk-failure, and the more shelves it's spread on, the more likely you will have a disk shelf failure taking the aggr down (hence you see spare assignment and ADP being shelf oriented).
My go-to and take-away these days is:
1. let ADP do it's thing. as sometimes it's really hard to predict what logic they use for it.
2. use the GUI to see what it suggest doing with the new disks.
3. use the disk add command -simulate and see what it suggests.
4. play with maxraidsize to fit your vision.
5. Consider a new aggr, especially for different disk types/speed/end of life (of the disk, or the shelf).